hair cuts and kindness...

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i got a haircut today:) it isn't noticeable but it has been quite some time since the last one so i thought today was a good day to change that. it is not shorter just cleaner and lighter. my head doesn't feel so heavy now. anywho, i have been working on a paper and doing some thinking on the side. i experienced something that rubbed me the wrong way yesterday and i have been thinking about it all day. 

i heard someone say negative things about another person. it wasn't by choice and i most def. was not eavesdropping. i was actually reading a book at work, i do that on my free time, and out of nowhere i heard this really negative thing and that made my nose bunch up and i thought, "yikes..." that really got me thinking. i was thinking about how we treat each other... and if it is how we would want others to treat us... and yes, that absolutely includes saying negative things about others when they aren't present. i have always heard and used the little saying, "kill... with kindness."this perhaps dumb saying has been a help to me.. it leads me to believe that kindness is key. it feels so much better to be kind, positive, lovers.
i know we all do it or have done it at one time or another but i guess i just thought that it was something we grow out of with time... i think most people do:) i know i much prefer a good old fashioned conversation about the weather... which has been so nice these past few days:) 
we were made to love so lets:)